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Heal Your Nervous System

When your system feels overwhelmed, activated, shut down, or unsteady, it can help to return to one small thing at a time. You don’t need to do all of this. Just begin where you are, and take what feels supportive.

“The feeling of safety is the treatment.”
— Stephen Porges

Start Here

A few gentle ways to come back to the present without having to take in everything at once.

Orient through the senses +
  • Use your five senses — what can you see, hear, smell, taste, and feel?
  • Touch 3 surfaces and really “feel into” them. Notice structure, finish, temperature, and texture.
  • Get a small object in one hand and describe the curves, texture, and weight. Then put it down and notice whether your palms feel different.
  • Look at pictures of positive memories.
  • Stomp on the grass outside. Pull it, feel it, smell it, and notice it between your fingertips.
Ground the body +
  • Put one hand in cool water, then pull it out and notice how your palms differ in feeling.
  • Use a fidget toy, crystal, charm, fabric, or another small object as a point of focus.
  • Squish a stress ball, putty, kinetic sand, or squeeze toy.
  • Try self-holding.
  • Give yourself a butterfly hug.
  • Try self-havening.
Use breath and sound +
Name what is happening +
  • Name it: identify that you’re activated, distressed, or dysregulated, and try not to judge it.
  • Describe your emotions in your body with a shape, color, size, sensation, temperature, movement, and weight.
  • Smile — if smiling feels hard, gently use your fingers to lift the sides of your mouth.
Move energy through +
Add soothing support +
  • Do a vagus nerve massage or ear massage.
  • Express yourself creatively — draw, color, paint, sew, knit, or build.
  • Try essential oils: lavender and chamomile for calming, sandalwood and ylang ylang for grounding, citrus for uplifting.
  • Try acupressure on yourself — PC6 and HT7 are especially helpful for anxiety and stress.

Movement + Feeling Map

Choose the feeling that feels closest, then explore one small supportive response.

You don’t have to figure it out all at once —
you can start slowly.

Have an in-body experience
— Lynne Forest
Support panel

Begin where you are

This may include

unclear, mixed, shifting, hard to name, or not knowing where to start

Body signals

numbness, activation, heaviness, restlessness, shutdown, or simply noticing that something feels off

Support direction

Start with noticing, not fixing. Let the body give you a little information before asking it to do more.

Try movement
  • feel where your body is supported by the chair, floor, or wall
  • look around and name a few neutral things you can see
  • soften the jaw, hands, or shoulders just 1%
Examples
  • hold a mug, blanket, or textured object and notice its weight or temperature
  • lower noise or bright light if your system feels overloaded
  • take one slower breath out without forcing a deep inhale
  • say to yourself: “I can start with what’s here.”

Emotions are not problems to solve —
they are signals asking to be felt, understood, and supported.



Music & Guided Support

For moments when it helps to be carried a little — by rhythm, pacing, or gentle guidance.

The Healing Rhythm

A calming space for ritual music, binaural beats, and nervous system support.

Music Breathing Playlist

A gentle playlist to support downshifting, breathing, and emotional settling.

Printable Tools

Resources you can save, print, or return to when it helps to have support close by.

Coping Skills Box
A printable collection of grounding and coping ideas you can return to when your system needs support.
Download PDF →
Nervous System Brochure
A helpful printable overview of nervous system states, regulation, and support tools.
Download PDF →
Window of Tolerance
A printable guide to understanding activation, hypoarousal, and the window where regulation feels more possible.
Download PDF →

Gentle Practices & Resources

A few quieter places to land when you want compassion, guidance, or a steadier pace.

Self-Compassion Practices

Audio Meditations

YouTube Support Playlist

A visual and guided option for when it helps to follow along rather than figure it out alone.

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